Men and women were created to coexist
even though they are completely different from one another. Men tend to lead and
provide for women and women take care of and protect men. There are many things
men and women do that are alike and so different. Men generally love outdoors
and sports, action figures, and video games. Women generally love pampering and
relaxation, getting their nails done, and playing with babies. Most women have
a nurturing tendency whereas men do not have that. Now, they may act, live, and
do things differently but they mesh together so well.
This
week we are talking intimacy between men and women. Generally during sex, just
like their normal lives, men and women are so different from one another. Men
are easily aroused and ready to have sex by the first sign of attraction. Women
are not so easily aroused, and usually take around fifteen minutes of foreplay
to be sexually aroused enough for sex. Men and women’s bodies are different,
and they emit different chemicals during sex. Another difference between men
and women during sex is the climax. Men are pleased simply by having sex. A man’s
penis involved in sex is what gets him to his climaxing point. Whereas the part
of women that causes the climax isn’t actually making contact during sex. Men have
a quick build up and a quick climax. It doesn’t last long, and a man has to
rebuild that stamina again before having sex again. Whereas women take longer
to climax and generally climax for a longer period of time. Women can even
climax again and again as long as the situation is pleasing to them. The
differences between men and women are so great, far and wide. However, they
just work so perfectly together as a whole.
Sex
makes couples happier. A strong sex life is crucial to a marriage and keeps
both parties happily involved in complete fidelity. When a couple isn’t having
great sex or is having sex less often, or even stopped having sex completely
the involved parties tend to stray. Infidelity starts with men or women. When people
don’t feel their needs are being met, they turn outward to wherever they can
find satisfaction. Women tend to look for something or someone that meets the needs
where her husband is lacking. Men do the same. For women it generally starts
with reading a romance novel. This form of pornography creates images in a woman’s
head. Men usually start with regular pornography, videos or pictures will suffice.
Even watching women in public. For both parties, men and women then take this
pornography they have been involved in and compare it to their spouse.
Comparing your spouse to something that is created to be perfect is unfair. The
pornography will win because it is meeting the needs your spouse is not.
The
next step that follows is an affair. Men or women have realized that there are
people out there that can meet their needs. Affairs destroy marriages and
families. Infidelity is often times the end of a marriage and sadly families as
well. Children stop speaking to parties involved and wounds are often created
that are past the point of healing.
Bottom
line: If you are having trouble within your marriage, if your sex life is
failing, or if either one of the parties involved is not feeling satisfied.
Talk about it first with each other. Communicate and try to solve the issue as
a couple. If this is not working meet with a counselor. Talk with someone both
alone and together that will help you work out your issues in complete fidelity.
You promised when you were married to love and respect each other, to never
stray, for better or worse. Keep that promise.
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